
Does Loss Feel Unbearable?
Here’s the truth: grief doesn’t care about your schedule. It ambushes you in the frozen foods aisle at Lunds & Byerlys, hits you crossing the Stone Arch Bridge, or finds you stuck in traffic on 35W. One minute you’re fine, the next you’re drowning in memories and that crushing weight on your chest won’t let up.
You might be wrestling with rage that surprises you. Or guilt that won’t quit. Maybe you’re so exhausted that getting out of bed feels like climbing Mount Everest, but sleep won’t come anyway.
Grief is relentless like that. Racing thoughts at 3 AM? Absolutely. Can’t remember if you ate today? Standard. Body aches that make no medical sense? Right on schedule. Dodging friends because you can’t fake “fine” anymore? Been there. And the tears… sometimes they won’t stop, other times you can’t cry when you desperately need to. This chaotic dance between numbness and overwhelming emotion can feel as unpredictable as Minnesota weather—brutal and disorienting. Especially when everyone else seems to have their shit together.
When The World Keeps Moving Without You
Your entire universe has shifted, yet the skyline still glows, the lakes still draw their joggers, and the world keeps spinning like nothing happened. It’s maddening to feel this alone when you’re surrounded by people. Studies show about 10% of grieving people get stuck in this particularly intense form of grief, but honestly? When it’s you, statistics don’t matter—the pain is 100%.
At Therapie, we get it. Not just professionally—we’re humans who’ve been gutted by loss too. We offer more than textbook responses. We offer real understanding.