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Parenting Counseling in Minneapolis, MN

Has That Little Bundle Of Joy Turned Into A Big Bundle Of Overwhelm?

Ah, parenting. The thing that fills your heart to the brim, and also has the power to absolutely wreck you. It’s the emotional rollercoaster of a lifetime, swinging between incredible love for your kid(s) and feelings like guilt, frustration, anger, or shame that hit you out of nowhere. Fun, right?

Up until now, you’ve pretty much always figured things out. School, career, relationships, building a life you’re proud of—you know your way around a challenge. You’ve been resourceful, capable, and generally on top of your game.

But here you are, because the daily grind of parenting has brought you to your knees. You’re stretched too thin, running on fumes, and now there’s this gnawing anxiety that you can’t show up for your kid(s) the way you want. Instead of the calm, connected parent you imagined being, you snap, shut down, or (worse) fall into that thing you swore you’d never do when it was your turn. Mean Mommy or Disgruntled Daddy has entered the chat, and guilt, anger, or a sense of powerlessness are becoming way too familiar.

It’s a lot. And parenting demands an emotional skill set that almost nobody possesses before being thrown headfirst into the deep end of raising tiny humans. Between navigating Minneapolis winters with stir-crazy kids, managing the financial squeeze of Minnesota’s sky-high childcare costs, and trying to hold it all together, it’s no wonder you’re drowning. That’s exactly why parenting counseling and coaching through Therapie can be so valuable. It teaches you to slow down, understand your stress response, and co-regulate with your child in ways that actually nurture growth and connection.

Interested in parenting counseling? Send us a message!

Parenting Perfectionism Is Alive And Well In The Twin Cities

Let’s be honest, your life was already packed before kids showed up. “Adulting” in Minneapolis is a full-time gig: juggling a demanding career, keeping up with household responsibilities, maintaining relationships with friends, partners, family members, coworkers, and (sometimes to your detriment) those pesky in-laws.

When children enter the mix, it puts everything from joy to agony into overdrive. There are so many pressures and expectations baked into the process, from what you imagine for yourself to what your partner expects, what your parents think, and what your workplace demands when it comes to the care of your little one(s). And if you’re navigating Minneapolis’s competitive childcare landscape, where Minnesota ranks as one of the most expensive states in the country for infant care, the financial stress alone is enough to send anyone over the edge.

Then there’s the scroll. Social media feeds and online parenting forums pump out a nonstop stream of advice about “doing the right thing” as a parent. The list of what you’re supposed to do is endless: manage your family’s needs seamlessly, optimize your kid’s development, stay emotionally regulated at all times, and do it all with a smile on your face. The juggle of it all will inevitably lead to exhaustion, burnout, and a desperate need to escape, even though what you want most is to be an emotionally available, present parent.

The data backs up what you’re feeling: the U.S. Surgeon General’s 2024 Advisory identified parental stress as an urgent public health concern, reporting that 41% of parents are so stressed most days they can’t function, and 48% say their stress feels completely overwhelming. A University of Minnesota researcher put it bluntly, noting that the pressure on parents to be perfect has grown enormously, and no matter what you do, someone will tell you you’re doing it wrong. You’re not imagining it. This is genuinely, objectively hard.

But coaching may just be the parenting hack you’ve been looking for. By learning skills for setting realistic goals, reprioritizing your time and energy, and engaging with your kids in a way that aligns with your actual values, you can break the cycle and find new footing as a parent.

Why Minneapolis Parents Choose Therapie

Look, you’ve already tried the DIY route. You’ve consumed more parenting content than you care to admit: the Instagram reels, the expert-recommended book lists, the group chat threads where everyone seems to have it figured out. And yet, here you are. Still stuck. Maybe the advice contradicts itself. Maybe you know what to do but can’t access it when your kid is melting down at bedtime and your nervous system is shot. Or maybe you’ve been so laser-focused on your child’s behavior that you haven’t stopped to look at what’s driving the whole dynamic.

That’s where we come in.

We built Therapie with a specific kind of person in mind: someone who’s sharp, self-aware, and used to performing at a high level. Our therapists aren’t generalists who happen to see parents on Tuesdays. Every clinician on our team is licensed in Minnesota, holds a graduate degree, and earned their spot through a vetting process we take seriously. We set that bar high because the families walking through our door in Uptown Minneapolis deserve someone who actually knows what they’re doing, not someone winging it with a worksheet.

How We Work With Parents

We welcome parents at every stage, whether your kid just started crawling or just started driving. Our Uptown office sits in the MoZaic building on Lagoon Avenue, easily accessible from Lyn-Lake, Whittier, South Minneapolis, and the broader metro. We also offer virtual sessions throughout Minnesota for parents who can’t always make the drive (because let’s face it, finding a sitter to go to therapy about parenting is peak irony).

Whether you come in as an individual or you and your partner want to work on your parenting dynamic together through couples therapy, we’ll tailor the process to fit your life. No cookie-cutter programs. No rigid scripts. Just a grounded, personalized approach that actually moves the needle.

Everything we do starts with three core questions: What’s happening (and why)? Where do you want to go? And how do we get you there? Those questions shape your experience from the very first conversation through to the work we do together in session.

What Actually Happens In Parenting Counseling

We draw on evidence-based, attachment-focused methods and blend them with real, individualized insight into your specific situation. The goal isn’t to hand you a parenting manual. It’s to help you build the internal skills to navigate the chaos with more confidence and less reactivity. Here’s some of what that looks like:

Learning to come back after a blow-up: You’re going to lose it sometimes. That’s not a failure; it’s being human. What matters is what happens next. We’ll help you develop genuine, effective ways to repair the connection with your kid after a rough moment, so ruptures become opportunities instead of shame spirals. (Bonus: you might reconnect with some of your own younger parts in the process.)

Getting fluent in emotions: Yours and theirs. When you can name what’s actually happening inside you, and help your child do the same, everything shifts. Discipline stops feeling like a battle and starts looking more like guidance. We’ll help you hold structure and empathy at the same time, which sounds impossible until it clicks.

Slowing your roll: Reactivity is the enemy of good parenting, and most of us default to it under stress. Through mindfulness-based skills, you’ll learn to create a beat of space between the trigger and your response, so you’re parenting from intention, not from your amygdala.

Handling the meltdowns: The toddler ones, the tween ones, and honestly? Your own. As your emotional awareness deepens and you develop a more reflective approach, you’ll have concrete strategies for de-escalating even the ugliest moments without losing yourself in the process.

We’ll meet you wherever you are, no judgment, no parenting philosophy lectures, no side-eye about screen time. Whether you’re white-knuckling through the toddler years, enduring the eye-rolls of middle school, or trying to stay connected to a teenager who barely speaks to you, there’s a way through. And that joy you fell in love with when they were born? It’s still in there. Parenting coaching at Therapie can help you get back to it.

Questions We Hear From Minneapolis Parents

"Does going to therapy mean I've failed as a parent?"

The opposite, actually. Walking through our door is one of the most proactive things you can do for your family. It takes real self-awareness to recognize you need support—and real guts to ask for it.

Most of the parents we work with are high-performers. They crush it at work, hold it together socially, and have high standards across the board. So when parenting throws them off their game, the gap between who they are and who they feel like in that moment is brutal. Therapy doesn't exist to point fingers. It exists to help you understand the patterns underneath the struggle and build a toolkit that lets you parent the way you actually want to.

"What if my therapist thinks I'm a terrible parent?"

We hear this one a lot, and we get why. Parenting is deeply personal, and nobody wants to feel evaluated. But here's the thing: several of our therapists are raising kids themselves. They know what it's like to have a perfectly sound parenting plan fall apart at 6:47 PM on a Wednesday. Our job isn't to grade your performance. It's to understand what you're working toward and help you get there, building on what's already working while opening up room for new approaches.

"Haven't I already done too much damage?"

No. Full stop. It doesn't matter if the patterns you're worried about have been running for months or years. The relationship between you and your child is a living, breathing thing, and it can absolutely shift. Parenting counseling creates space to step back, see the bigger picture, and start making intentional changes. Our therapists are all about forward motion. We don't dwell on what went wrong; we focus on what's possible from here, because it's always more than you think.

You Can Find Joy In Parenting Again

If you’re curious about what parenting counseling could look like for you, we’d love to connect. We offer a free 15-minute consultation where you can share what’s going on, ask us anything, and get a feel for whether we’re the right fit. No strings, no sales pitch, just a real conversation. If it feels right, we’ll get you on the calendar for a first session.

Therapie is located at 1330 Lagoon Ave, 4th Floor, Suite 459 in Uptown Minneapolis. We offer both in-person and online sessions throughout Minnesota. Call us at (612) 287-5100 or schedule your free consultation online.

1330 Lagoon Ave 4th Floor Ste 459,
Minneapolis, MN 55408