Therapie | 210 25th Ave N suite 601, Nashville, TN 37203 | Call: (615) 551 9195

Trauma Therapy

Are You Over Living With The Ick Factor?

Do you tend to carry around feelings of guilt, shame, anger, isolation, or just a general sense of ickiness due to things that happened in your past?

If there was a soundtrack to your life, would it be the blare of alarm bells? 

As a result, is it difficult for you to stay relaxed and at ease?

Maybe it feels like you’re living each day in panic or survival mode. Waking up in the morning often feels impossible, but by the time your head hits the pillow at night, you’re suddenly on high alert. Anxiety probably follows you around like a bad haircut, creating a self-critical inner monologue, intrusive thoughts, and the annoying need to be perfect all the time. 

The ick feels, well, icky. Maybe you’re often physically uncomfortable, whether you experience chronic pain, nausea, or a weakened immune system. This is all made worse by the fact that you have trouble getting to or staying asleep at night—it turns out you have a brain that is great at cycling through reminders of your to-do list, your crippling fear of earthquakes, and that really embarrassing time you tripped and ate sh*t in front of your eighth-grade crush. 

Your brain never stops, and there is constant tension in your life that impacts your work, relationships, and overall wellbeing in ways that you may not even be aware of. But you’re tired of chasing your tail and know it’s time to ditch the ick. 

Our therapists are here to guide you in peeling back the layers of your discomfort and dissatisfaction down to core issues. There, you are likely to find past stressors or traumas that have kept you stuck in survival mode, but don’t worry—therapy can help you leave the past where it belongs: behind you.

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Trauma Is That Thing We’d Rather Not Talk About

We get it—the “T” word has a pretty bad rap around these parts, and it can be intimidating to think about our experiences as being traumatic. However, the truth is that most of us will survive a trauma in our lives; emotional scars are just as common as a scraped knee. 

And sure, things like car accidents, assaults, and sudden illness are, indeed, traumatic, but other, less obvious forms of trauma will affect most of us at some point. Often, these traumas take place in childhood and are the result of not getting our emotional needs met in some way. Examples may include bullying, divorce, a sudden death in the family, and any kind of neglect or abuse. 

But those are just a few of the heavy-hitters—trauma has the potential to occur following any sudden, distressing, or overwhelming experience, whether it happened a long time ago or more recently. It can even follow events we perceive as “minor,” including work-related stressors, sudden changes in our routine, or tense interactions with friends, family members, coworkers, and/or strangers. 

But let’s face it: our culture sucks at dealing with the “T” word. Aside from so many barriers in the way of people receiving meaningful mental health awareness and support, our success-obsessed society takes advantage of our anxieties and perpetuates work-life imbalance, while at home, we’re inundated with a constant barrage of news and information—most of it a raging dumpster fire. A lot of us struggle to give ourselves permission to log off from the stress, magnifying already existing ickiness. 

Trauma therapists are ick specialists trained to help you connect your emotions with what has happened in your life. As you better understand the root causes of your symptoms in counseling, you can learn new, empowering ways to approach and heal your trauma. 

Therapie Is The Ick Antidote

Our therapists are not here to sit around and judge your experiences, pathologize your trauma, or blame your parents for what you bring to the counseling space; we want to work alongside you in this process in a way that feels productive and worth your time. Therapy is tailored to your goals and experiences, drawing in individualized stress management tools and techniques that will allow you to feel better. 

Our practice draws from Three Guiding Questions to help clients identify core traumas: 

01 What’s Currently Happening And Why? How do you feel? (Identify the ick.)

02 Where Do You Want To Go? What does healing look like? (Explore the ick and, most importantly, imagine what life will look like without it.)

03 What To Do About It? What mechanisms are needed to reprocess your trauma? (Conquer the ick.)

The main objective of trauma treatment will be to provide you with coping skills, emotional regulation strategies, cognitive restructuring, and an ability to reframe your experiences. Though your story might feel like a long, depressing melodrama at the moment, counseling gives you a chance to change the plot and unshackle yourself from the past. 

The Modalities We Use

We’re also big nerds about scientifically validated, trauma-specific approaches that reduce stress and actually change the way that trauma is stored in the brain. Some of the proven methods we use are:

  • Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) – don’t be fooled by the technical name; this therapy is gentle, nonverbal, and extremely effective in reprocessing trauma through the nervous system using eye movement. 
  • Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT) – our clients are successful, high-achieving people who were the ones to ask their school teachers for extra homework. So, we like to draw from this highly structured treatment model that lays out steps for creating an account of what happened and challenging the distorted beliefs that have occurred as a result. 
  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) – it is so exhausting to be fighting against your thoughts and feelings all the time! This counseling approach helps facilitate a stronger sense of acceptance in your life while empowering you to live in accordance with the values that ongoing trauma has overshadowed. 
  • Brainspotting – similar to EMDR, this therapy uses the visual field to locate and process trauma that has been stored in the body. 
  • Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) – age-old cognitive techniques are combined with trauma-informed interventions to inform a healthier, more balanced outlook and experience. 

 

When these approaches are combined to fit your needs, they have the potential to turn that ick into insight, paving the way toward healing. Our practice also offers clients access to The Akademie, where additional resources can be found.

We know you’re tired of feeling haunted and bogged down by the effects of trauma, but therapy is a meaningful way to understand the connections between past wounds and current pains. You are capable of healing those scars. 

Still Have Questions About Trauma Therapy?

What if I can’t make time in my busy schedule for counseling?

If you’re anything like the other busy professionals we work with, we know that you practically have to schedule your showers. That’s why we offer flexible scheduling options—including early morning, evening, and weekend appointments—to fit therapy into your busy life. We’re also available to meet you via telehealth from wherever feels safe and confidential to you.

Investing time in your mental health now can actually free up some of your time and energy, creating more space in your life for the good stuff.

Despite my trauma, I’ve been successful in managing my life so far—do I really need counseling?

We absolutely trust that you have your sh*t together, but why not accept an offer to lighten your load for a bit? You’re here because you know something is off, and you’re tired of feeling weighed down by past disappointments. Therapy allows you to meaningfully process your thoughts and feelings so that you can feel a sense of forward momentum in your life, providing you with essential and enduring stress management and emotional regulation skills along the way.

Isn’t therapy for people who’ve experienced more trauma than me?

The Trauma Club is one of the least exclusive institutions in the world; sudden and distressing experiences are part and parcel of being human. And often, the most “high functioning” of us are the ones who struggle the most with burnout, perfectionism, and difficult relationship dynamics.

Therapy can help you reduce a comparison mindset as you explore how your unique experiences have shaped your self-understanding. Through this process, you can develop skills that will keep you aware and resilient for life.

Ditch The Ick

Therapy may be what you need to propel forward.  If you’re ready to let go of the shame, anxiety, and frustration you’ve been trudging through, the trauma specialists at Therapie are here to offer you a lifeboat. Contact us to schedule an appointment or free consultation.

210 25th Ave N suite 601, Nashville, TN 37203